Science Article:Brain: The negative always out ways the positive

Broken Heart

Recently, to most of my readers may not no, but have been wondering where I have been as of late, I have recently got into a real bad break up. Really broke me into pieces, and it really made me question who I am as a man, and what I can do better for the next one. So obviously when I do my daily science article to read I would pick the one about love, and how the brain picks its partner.

We as humans according to science tend to pick are partners, but always have a drawback to it because we always relate, and hold on to the negative aspect of our partners. When I think of this I think of myself, and I always saw myself as having several negative qualities, and yes my ex, I also saw her having many negative qualities, but I tend to think that I loved her so much that I overlooked them. However I am also different then most people when growing with depression I learn to see the good in everyone, or else the world would have eaten me alive years and years ago. While I’m in that awkward phase of trying to get out of this relationship hump, I have to realize that my brain will always hold on to the negative aspect for my partners, thus in turning I will eventually will have to learn to balance that out. However thus is life!

Thank you for reading, a little bit more depressing than usual, but eventually I will get over this. Thank you for listening.

Link to the Article:

http://www.iflscience.com/brain/we-focus-more-people-s-negative-traits-when-we-re-looking-love-researchers-find

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